Family

Family

These are valuable but families are also hugely important: a well-functioning family environment helps us to sustain good mental health, and can be a critical component in our recovery and coping if we do become unwell. Here are some characteristics of families that...
Which Person Will Help Me Best

Which Person Will Help Me Best

In emergencies, dial  111, or call the Mental Health Crisis Team https://www.health.govt.nz/your-health/services-and-support/health-care-services/mental-health-services/crisis-assessment-teams. If you or someone you care for is very unwell or suicidal, you can...
Our Children’s Anxiety and Our Own

Our Children’s Anxiety and Our Own

Of course, all children experience stress, frights and worries: starting school, making friends, coping with separation from parents, experiencing social challenges like bullying and teasing – all of these can shake a child’s peace of mind. These are periods of real...
Helping Our Child Understand Their Anxiety

Helping Our Child Understand Their Anxiety

We feel their pain, and sometimes we are frustrated and embarrassed by their apparent lack of courage.  Telling them off for their anxiety is unkind, unfair and worse than ineffective. Adding shame and guilt on top of their anxiety is probably just going to...
Helping Children Face Their Anxiety

Helping Children Face Their Anxiety

Many children (and adults) avoid situations, even though they may know, rationally, there is little real risk. What they really worry about is that they will feel anxious. It is phobophobia – a fear of feeling fear.   It is helpful...